You may have heard that your body language and tonality make up 93% in a face to face interaction, whereas what you say only counts for 7%.

It's very true.

I was recently coaching a client on a Modern Man Lifestyle Course.

One of the areas I coached him on during the Friday and Saturday night was BODY LANGUAGE and its impact on naturally attracting women.

After demonstrating attractive body language in an interaction with some women, my client and I headed off to another bar where he was to try it himself.

On the way, I noticed a guy in a caf who was sitting alone. There were two drinks on his table.

Groups of people sat together on the tables around him. It was a loud, busy atmosphere drenched in the sounds of laughter, conversation and the clinking of cutlery and glassware.

The guy was relaxed and composed.

I observed the vibe he was giving of to the world and within seconds it hit me:

This guy understands what its like to be successful with women.

How did I know this?

We at The Modern Man have spent thousands of hours looking at, analysing and understanding the social dynamics of male/female attraction.

We know what to look for.

So, what was it about this guy that communicated he had the know how to attract women?

Well, lets take a closer look...

1. I didnt know the guy, so any knowledge of past experiences with women didnt influence my thoughts. 2. Id never conversed with him, so voice tone and conversation skills were out. 3. He was alone, so social proof had nothing to do with it.

How could I possibly know this guy was good with women?

The area in question is POWERFUL; especially when it comes to naturally attracting women.

What was it?

Yep, you guessed it.

BODY LANGUAGE.

Women INSTINCTIVELY form opinions about you by observing your body language.

The wrong body language can RUIN any sense of attraction a woman feels for you in SECONDS.

This particular guys body language was:

CONFIDENT

And

MASCULINE

Although there are many ways to display confident and masculine body language, here are some examples from this situation:

- He was relaxed back comfortably into his chair.
- His legs were wide apart, but not too wide to be trying.
- His arms rested comfortably on the chairs arms.
- His chest was lifted upward, but not too much to be trying.

My client and I stopped for a minute and I pointed out what was going on and why women found it attractive.

Heres something to remember

Body language is like an advertisement.

In advertising, a high level of importance is placed on what message is being conveyed. If you get the message right, people will respond. In terms of body language, women naturally respond well to guys who are confident and masculine.

Do you currently display the right body language in all situations?

If not, then you need to work it so you can easily spark a natural attraction with women.

Be real and resolve to develop more CONFIDENT and MASCULINE BODY LANGUAGE.

Dont know how?

Then let us help you.

We are experts in this field and can help you.

One thing I love most about being a dating coach at The Modern Man, is sharing my knowledge to improve guys lives.

I know how it feels to not have the success you deserve with women. Its not a nice feeling and Im sure many of you can relate.

Oh, and in case youre wondering who eventually came and sat down at the table?

An extremely attractive young woman.

She smiled softly as she sat down.

Nice.

Ben